Saturday 12 October 2024

BEYOND PERFECT




The author


Arden had lived a loner’s life on a small ship left to him by his parents, sans any communication with the outside world, for the past 17 years. He had an advanced distress tech invented by him aboard his vessel, on which his only pals, the sea creatures, alerted him when someone was in need in the deep sea and he would relentlessly save them at any cost. He was the master of the marine realm who toiled ardently day and night to upgrade his innovative technology and had dedicated his life to this mission because this very sea had once swallowed his world, his mom and dad, during a tempestuous storm when he was barely ten and he could not do anything.

 

He had never experienced the void in his life until one day he met Rose during one of his rescue missions. Surprisingly, even Rose had been on her own, alone on a secluded island, and only remembered being carried away by the strong waves when she was playing on the beachside as a very small girl. The next morning she had woken up on this lonely island’s shore and thereafter devised her survival techniques in the hope that someday she would reach back to her family.

 

Her solitary battle for survival too had been nothing short of extraordinary but after what felt like an era she only saw her hope fading away each day so she decided to swim far and wide until she spotted a carrier that could take her back. For days and nights she swam and swam but the more she did, the more she realized there was no hope until Arden found her clinging to a piece of wreckage and floating on water semiconscious after being alerted on his distress tech. She showed no signs of life as Arden lifted her in his strong arms on that lightning-struck thunderous night but he would not give up this easily.

 

An unknown power compelled him to whisper in her ears, ‘’You are going to be alright dear”, with a heart full of warmth, and the universe listened as she gently opened her eyes.

 

But the very next moment she shivered in pain and perhaps fright as this was her first encounter with a human after so many years. Her panic was evident but her fragile body had no energy to retaliate, she did not realize she was in the safest pair of robust arms in the world.

 

The Sea which snatched Arden’s parents gifted him Rose and they were now even. His anger gradually melted away as he cared for Rose day and night until she fully recovered. The two had a stark similarity in their looks and personalities, both were blue-eyed and ivory-skinned and were kids of mother nature possessing an ocean of deep silence in their hearts bonded together by their shared trauma and solitude. Soon, both Arden and Rose grew a great fondness for each other albeit in a very strange cute way because neither of them had had an encounter with the opposite sex so far.

 

Rose had always felt a strong tingling when Arden tended to her wounds with her heart beating faster, she had never experienced this galore of myriad emotions entering and exiting her heart at a miraculous speed before. She had wanted to caress him back but only smiled. Sparks did ignite though when their eyes met. My sweethearts evidently could not identify that they had fallen in love which is the purest of the pure human feelings, for a very long time but drowned merrily in what was happening between them.

 

From being extremely shy initially, communicating only through actions with an occasional touch making butterflies flutter in their stomachs, they grew inseparable and built their beyond-perfect adorable world full of profound love. Little things like decorating their ship with magnificently prettyshells and corals or Rose dancing to the songs and poems weaved by Arden brought them unparalleled joy. But most of all they liked to talk as they had had no one to share for years and both of them craved family, as a very long period of solitude and battling sickness and near-death incidences at close angles alone, they loved how complete they felt in each other’s company. They were now family, it meant the world to them to be able to share their hearts and souls with someone.

 

Under a star-studded sky, Arden would narrate to Rose how he and his parents were a beautiful family of three, his dad being a veteran ex-merchant navy engineer and his mom his colleague and a gifted poetess. They had home-schooled Arden as they had chosen a life at the sea on their ship in the arms of Mother Nature and their son had inherited the prowess of both his parents. His mother’s compassionate heart and beautiful songs and poems which he often sang had taught him to communicate with the marine species with whom Arden can talk and they alerted him on his distress tech, inventing which was his dad’s dream and he was super thrilled to fulfil it.

 

It was a beautiful sight to behold, every time Arden sang, the mesmerized dolphins, vibrant fishes, and other creatures of the marine realm came to enjoy the show and now they were also treated to Rose dancing to his tunes, in fact, they too joined the merriment of these two pure souls destined to be together forever. Time flew and felt like straight out of a fairy tale as the two made love for the first time under the serene blue skies and above the pristine blue ocean waters. The universe blessed their beyond perfect love. 

 

Arden taught Rose how to communicate with the creatures at sea and she loved his world of which she was now the most integral part. Undoubtedly she was a quick learner and was quick to identify the signals at the distress tech every time, if Arden was elsewhere, as they set sail immediately to help. She too had known the sea world from years of living on the shore and Arden was spellbound whenever she shared her knowledge on what all she had learned, living on the shore all these years. She had developed her one-of-a-kind vocabulary to name and describe sea life and things, which often made them laugh together.

 

Rose also, too often spoke about how her parents might be still looking for her and how badly she had missed her little sister Lily. They had come for a vacation at the beach when her world fell apart. She still would wake up at night listening to her mom shouting out her name aloud with cries for help as the waves had carried her away when her dad had gone to get their car parked away. There is nothing more she remembers other than their blurred faces now.

 

Rose’s unwavering resolve to find them someday added purpose to Arden’s technological ingenuity and together they decided to embark on a quest to locate Rose's long-lost family. Nobody could doubt their strong will and determination and after all what is life, without a goal, rather it united them further, but yes they were looking at a rather impossible goal.

 

It was indeed going to be a herculean task to search for Rose’s family, the only guy Arden knew on the mainland was the hardware shop owner uncle, his dad’s friend, who supplied him with the necessary supplies needed to upgrade and maintain the distress tech and carrier vessel. Navigating the sea in search of someone on the mainland whose names and faces they barely knew needed meticulous planning and technological know-how if at all they had to succeed.

 

Arden’s distress tech was based on frequencies to communicate with marine species but the new invention he needed to work on was to build a tech that could interact with the communication systems of every mainland they sailed to in search of Rose’s parents. Once the groundwork was done and the crude tech was in place they set sail not wanting to lose time, Arden wanted to keep working on it on the way and had already amassed all that could be needed from his old uncle. He had chalked on a detailed map of the probable areas they would hit first based on Rose’s faint description. All this time, Rose always fuelled Arden’s hard work with her inspirational words and unshakable belief in him.

 

He had recorded a message from Rose to his family with every possible detail she remembered and they transmitted it to every mainland they reached about a girl lost at sea searching for her family until they heard back. It took them several years to find Rose’s parents thanks to Arden’s extraordinary efforts and Rose was on cloud nine to see her mom-dad and Lily back. She was right they had not stopped looking for her and had left information about her everywhere they could. It was as if Rose had lost all hope and made peace with the truth but her love did not let her down and she was reunited with her family. Tears of joy knew not how to stop and kept cascading down all eyes in disbelief.

 

Rose’s parents could not thank Arden enough for saving their daughter and were ecstatic to take their daughter home as their family was finally complete. Lily never left her elder sister’s hand for a minute and grinned merrily from cheek to cheek, hugging her only sibling in sheer joy repeatedly. Arden saw Rose leaving, he was very happy that Rose had found her family and could not understand why his heart felt so heavy. Back home Rose’s mom made her delectable drool-worthy food and Lily made her adorn in her favourite dress. Rose was amazed and amused to see a television a refrigerator and several other gadgets at home which were decorated with Rose’s dolls from when she was really small. Dad explained how he heard in the news on TV that transmissions are received from a ship about a girl lost at sea and they immediately knew it was their daughter lost 18 years ago. They could not believe what they just heard and their joy knew no bounds and it was the happiest day of their lives. They were so elated that they swore they would never let Rose be separated from them again.

 

Somehow Rose’s joy felt incomplete. She found the mainland very strange, and difficult to adapt to, and though she loved her family, she missed her life at sea. Of course, she knew she was longing for Arden the most and could not bear to stay away from him even for a moment.

 

In a poignant moment of reckoning, Rose affirmed her feelings for Arden to her parents and they agreed at once to accept him as family to come and live with them forever. But Rose's heart was torn apart, she knew her love was on a mission at sea and he had dedicated his life to it. She had to make a choice and this one was just not possible to make. She could not leave her mom and dad whose hair had greyed waiting for her long lost daughter and her life had no meaning without Arden in it, who had been her only family for the past years and had unconditionally loved her.

 

On the ship, Arden lay lifeless feeling his soul was gone, he could feel Rose’s fragrance and presence everywhere, the emptiness was killing. He was blank. “I miss you, Rosie”, his heart cried a million times. It was heartening that they could communicate sometimes when the frequencies matched, through the mini transmitter Arden had playfully invented for them to communicate which worked fine in a certain range. But he would have to leave in a few days. He was in such a dilemma, he could not ask his love to come and be his forever, leaving everything, nor could he think of a life without her.

 

He wanted to give Rose a fair chance to decide what her heart genuinely desires and not influence it in any way. Who knew better than him, the desperate attempts Rose made to get together with her family. He would wait patiently for her at sea even if meant a wait of a lifetime. He knew she would always find him if the need be.

 

Arden soon let it sink deep that Rose’s parents could not lose their daughter once again. He left a message on the transmitter for Rose to come and see her at the shore at sunset. He had decided to leave that day after seeing his love one last time without telling her but as fate would have it he found no one on the shore for hours. With a broken heart, he returned to his ship to set sail. But guess what, on the ship waited his better half, Rose had chosen their ‘Beyond Perfect’ love.

 

Yes, what the universe witnessed that day was beyond perfect as the two lovers fell into each other’s arms and let their separation agony flow unhindered from their eyes as the two could not stop crying and kissing each other.

 

“I thought you would never come, Rosie!” Arden spoke softly placing his lips on Rose’s right ear and hugged her even tighter. He would not let her go at any cost that day he thought but still waited to hear her decision.

 

“I am sorry, my love, I took longer than usual to convince Mom, Dad, and Lily that you are my world and I feel lifeless without you. I could not leave until I got their permission and today they heard the same pain in your transmitted message and gave me the permission.

 

I am now all yours, Ardie, nothing can separate us now until death sets us apart. I bet I will convince her too.”

 

On the shore waited Rose’s family who blessed them in abundance and bid them goodbye with a promise that they get to hear about their well-being from them regularly.

 

The two happy souls lost in each other’s love, went back to their unique life at sea, to their beyond-perfect world full of love, united in an unwavering bond and a shared mission of compassion and rescue.

Thursday 12 September 2024

Revealing the fuel to my soul


It is a beautiful morning today and I stole time to write. The way wherein the purest feelings of my heart, the voice of my soul just flow out and I let it be not hindering or judging it but rejoicing in it. 


Last week I had the calmest birthday of my blog baby and as I sat thinking and smiling at all the beautiful years gone by dabbling in my favorite form of expression, I realized writing has been the bottom line of all that I have achieved in the past decade. 





In fact, the roles in which I have evolved gradually and take pride in today as being my identity have all evolved from my love for the written word right from my childhood. Writing helped me channel my emotions since I was four and didn’t let me sink as my parents dropped me at my maternal grandparents for my education. From then whenever I am overwhelmed with any magnitude of emotions, the words automatically help me navigate through them patiently.


They also became my saviors when I stepped down from my dream career at Ikea of Sweden, and I gradually started my blog. Those who read me recommended me to start my communication skills academy in Pune and thus I knew it was God’s way of making what I love become my profession. More than money it was the positive joy or change that I could bring to someone’s life, that mattered to me then, and even today. All this while I also dabbled in the tasks of a legitimate blogger influencer in all earnestness, only picking up campaigns that struck a chord or brought some sort of value addition for my readers and audiences. Your support mattered as I garnered over 1.8 million footsteps on my blog, along with winning Women of the Year Award in 2015, the Planet's Pride Award in 2018 and Sahityakosh Samman in 2021. Awards were rare early on unlike today and they reinforced my belief that I was on the right track. One thing led to another and in 7 years I churned 7 books and self-published them. Well, those who read them loved them





I never marketed them enough though, I don’t have that vein, I am all empathetic and compassionate, and selling has never been me. My best friend, a sales mastermind, feels that we had a great opportunity to become a corporate training agency and make big bucks and so does the love of my life who says that I could have had my own marketing agency or more. But to me many years ago when I quit corporate, big money stopped making a difference and my focus has since been on the little joys of life because I identify with them. I have a lot of friends amongst you who may not agree with me and I value their opinions just that I am not wired like them, I aim is to lead a wholesome, spiritual, and full of love, life until I am alive. 


My focus is always on my growth too and I proudly say my constant growth or my earnest attempt to keep growing is the real fuel to my soul and I cherish it about me. This year in March,  I launched 27 Authors through my book Brave Inked Emotions and to say the least, to make their dreams come true was an enriching journey and so was valuing their emotions exactly like mine. I think I did a fair job as a first-time editor. I am humbled that it still has an average rating of 4.6 out of 5 on Amazon. So yes I have grown a lot from a blogger, author, communication skills coach, and influencer to being an editor recently but it does not stop here. 





For all those of you wanting to know where I have been, I have recently been certified as an international Nutritionist in Modern Nutrition and Ayurvedic Diet. But more on it in my next blog.


This one is more to thank you all for being there to receive and accept my words, and my writing always with open arms and kind heart. It means the world to me.


If you like what I write, you can grab copies of my eight published works here: The Fragrance of True LoveDestiny's Favorite ChildDare to Defy The DestinyEmpowered Women Empower Women, Soulful Letters On COVID, for My Future GrandchildI Live to Love YouSoft Strings Of My Heart and Brave Inked EmotionsAlso, as the founder of the Endometriosis Support and Awareness Group of India and Emotionally Strong Women Of India, I would love for you to join me in my mission or approach me for any women's health-related (physical/mental/emotional) assistance you seek.







Tuesday 3 September 2024

Losing Maa Is Never Easy




When I lost my mom in my early twenties, the wound in my heart didn’t heal for years. The void felt irreparable and I cried at the drop of a hat. I was guilty of what could have I tried differently to save her and not let her leave us at such a young age. She was yet to enjoy her daughter’s professional acumen or her grandson’s first smile. All I wanted to achieve was for her. 

I have seen her go through so much and still groom me enrich me and strengthen me every which way. The wounds don’t heal and though I just don’t speak about them to anyone, I relive the last moments when she left, touching her one last time before her funeral and making her infinite promises silently, so often in solitude and they still hurt so so much.


So much so that even the mention of someone losing a mom perplexes me and I have never attended a funeral or Prayer Meet thereafter for 18 years until yesterday when someone very close to me and a very pure and noble soul lost her mother and I knew I had to be there somewhere behind her in the Prayer Meet praying for her and her mom silently. The Prayer Meet made me miss my mom and relive the same agony of her last moments but miraculously I felt very light after my tears blurred my vision infinite times as soulful bhajans, tribute, and poems by near and dear ones touched all hearts. 


In the deepest corner of my heart, I felt, though it is never easy for any of us to let go of our mother, it was high time I no longer hold on to the sadness of losing her but instead celebrate her greatness and set her spirit free from my heart. 


I know she agreed with me because I saw her yesterday night in my dream for quite some time smiling and cracking a joke sending us all in splits with her wise sense of humour. I was thrilled to regain my mamma and I think I healed a bit after seeing her in her favorite sari, bob hair, and most importantly her infectious smile. I lost my mom in 2006 and I got her back yesterday. 


So many happy memories of her are flooding my heart since then and my feelings just made their way to this tribute for all the mothers in this world. I know losing our mom is never easy but let us try not to lose her but instead let her live as our guiding light in our hearts, forever smiling.



If you like what I write, you can grab copies of my eight published works here: The Fragrance of True LoveDestiny's Favorite ChildDare to Defy The DestinyEmpowered Women Empower Women, Soulful Letters On COVID, for My Future GrandchildI Live to Love YouSoft Strings Of My Heart and Brave Inked EmotionsAlso, as the founder of the Endometriosis Support and Awareness Group of India and Emotionally Strong Women Of India, I would love for you to join me in my mission or approach me for any women's health-related (physical/mental/emotional) assistance you seek.





Friday 30 August 2024

What benefits can you get from shaper swimwear?

For many people, buying swimwear can be quite challenging. to shop for and sometimes to wear. Sometimes the idea of wearing a swimsuit in public evokes self-consciousness and anxiety. People feel pressured by society to look a certain way.

A great solution to all of this is shaper swimwear. This is a category of swimsuits that not only has been designed to be stylish but also provide support and shaping. These pieces have gained a lot of popularity thanks to their ability to enhance natural curves, boost confidence, and offer comfort.

Knowing the benefits of this type of shapewear and the reasons why it should be considered in any wardrobe will help you make informed choices.

Body contouring enhanced





Thanks to this new type of shapewear and swimwear, you can get to contour and enhance the shape of the body. These pieces have been designed with built-in panels, high-quality fabrics, and strategic seaming. And will work together to create a more streamlined silhouette. It will accentuate the curves and minimize the areas of concern.

It often includes tummy control features like reinforced panels in the midsection, defining the waist, and flattening the stomach. This is perfect for those who want to get an hourglass figure or want to feel more confident with their swimsuits. Besides, the fabric used is more structured and supportive, providing a firmer fit.

Boosting confidence

A boost in confidence is one of the benefits you can get from wearing a sculpting swimsuit. Wearing a swimsuit can be daunting, for self-conscious people who try to avoid visits at the pool or the beach for this reason. But the good news is, is that a sculpting swimsuit will help alleviate these concerns.



You’ll get a newfound confidence from feeling and looking good. This can happen when you wear a garment that has been designed to flatter your figure and support you. You’ll have a more enjoyable and positive experience allowing you to embrace the fun and relaxation when you are at the pool or the beach.

Support and comfort


Support and comfort are as important to consider like the slimming and sculpting effects. High-quality pieces are designed with comfort in mind, and soft and breathable fabrics are used. The fabric combined with underwire or adjustable straps ensure that you have the necessary support and it stays in place.

For those with larger breasts shaper swimwear offers the support they need thanks to different features. These elements will lift and shape the bust and provide a more comfortable and secure fit.

Another aspect is the freedom of movement that they provide. While it surely offers a firm and supportive fit, the fabric is usually flexible and stretchy. Your swimwear will move with you whatever activity you are doing at the beach or the pool.

Style and versatility

As there are many options around, there will be a swimsuit that will suit your body type and style. Many pieces will feature stylish details like color blocking, ruching, and asymmetrical designs. These won’t only add visual interest but enhance the slimming effects of the garment.

For example, ruching can help conceal problem areas and create a more elongated silhouette. Color blocking, on the other hand, darker colors can create the appearance of a slimmer waist. Brighter colors and patterns can help accentuate some areas.

Quality and durability

Consider always investing in high-quality garments as they have been made with materials that are long-lasting and durable. Especially because they have been made to withstand, sand, sea, and sun. The fabric is often thick and more resistant to fading and stretching than regular swimsuits. They will last much longer, even if used much more often.

The quality of the construction of the piece is another factor contributing to its durability. They are made with reinforced seams, high-quality closures, and strong stitching. The durability will make getting a shaper swimwear a smart investment. And also contributes to performance and comfort.

Friday 23 August 2024

The Tale of a Lost Ring


Whenever I am very happy I have a habit of doing something good for someone, which multiplies my joy. Last Sunday, I was at a gorgeously cozy cafe called Mia Bella to have a tiny Friendship Day Celebration. The cafe and the scenery around it was breathtakingly mesmerizing and I was lost clicking pictures to capture the moments on all three floors. The food was yummy and the staff was very cordial. I was happy like a baby and the typical me gave them a perfect rating with their names mentioned voluntarily without them asking. The next day at home I realized I had lost my precious ring and went mad searching for it, losing it broke my heart. 

Later the Lady Sherlock Homes in me inferred from the pics that I had dropped it at the cafe. I immediately called them and the back-end office's marketing manager just passed my query asking me to come search for it. I knew I could never find it on the three floors but I have a firm belief that I will always find what I lose, I knew it will somehow come back. It was Wednesday and at the behest of a dear friend, I called again and this time luckily the front desk picked up. A guy called Lucky assured me that we try his best to find it and I must send a picture of the ring which I did immediately. 

Out of good will, I told him that as a token of appreciation, I would like to give a sum of 2K to whoever finds it without knowing even if this would have an impact or not. In an hour’s time, he called me back that he had found the ring. I collected it yesterday and handed over the prize money to him with a big thank you. His eyes lit, I was a small medium for it to reach him and in turn, I got my valuable ring back. Also, did I mention I used the Nicole Tesla Method to manifest finding it which had so much emotional value for me. Overall the entire incident warmed my heart and my faith in the fact that if you won’t do anything bad to anyone, nothing bad will ever happen to you, was reinforced. Do good guys and forget it. Life is beautiful and God is kind💖


If you like what I write, you can grab copies of my eight published works here: The Fragrance of True LoveDestiny's Favorite ChildDare to Defy The DestinyEmpowered Women Empower Women, Soulful Letters On COVID, for My Future GrandchildI Live to Love YouSoft Strings Of My Heart and Brave Inked EmotionsAlso, as the founder of the Endometriosis Support and Awareness Group of India and Emotionally Strong Women Of India, I would love for you to join me in my mission or approach me for any women's health-related (physical/mental/emotional) assistance you seek.






Monday 29 July 2024

Book Review of Tiny Habits Massive Results by Jaishree Nenwani


Our habits indeed define our life, they determine how long we will live a healthy and happy life sans all stress. Still, we often feel entrapped in our old sometimes not-so-good habits and despite wanting to change them, we just keep getting back to our own old self. Sometimes we get so complacent that even if we know we have an unhealthy habit still it is so strongly engrained in our brains that we fail to change it. What if we have a resource that helps us do exactly this. Well, today I will share with you a recommendation for a self-help book that aids us to build worthy habits smoothly for our betterment. 


The book I am talking about is ‘Tiny Habits Massive Results’ by Jaishree Nenwani.


About the Book


Other than the random element of luck, what differentiates successful people from the rest are their Habits. They cultivate certain habits that contribute to their happier and healthier life. Learning these habits and how to use them in your life is rewarding.

 

In this book, you will learn about simple yet impactful lifestyle habits that separate achievers from regular people.

 

These tiny habits have a transformative effect on your physical and mental health, career, relationships, and life.

 


About the Author


 

Jaishree is a millennial blogger curating inspired wisdom that guides people to go deep and make a shift in their thoughts. She is passionate about journaling and loves to share wisdom and journaling tools that invoke deeper authenticity and Personal transformation. She writes about Self-improvement, Personal growth, and ways to become happier in your life. Follow her on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter, and Linked @jaishreenenwani

 


My Take on the Book


First things first, the seven tiny habits recommended by the author in this book as standalone chapters, struck a chord deeply. Somehow, as I gradually devoured this book, I realized a lot of changes I have always wanted to bring into my lifestyle, but never really thought of the practical techniques to sustain them impeccably in the long run. This book gave me these techniques in the most simple yet impactful way. 


I am glad the book is not preachy and is written anecdotally which keeps the reader engaged as we can relate to the real-life examples. These 7 habits if nurtured properly can be instrumental in providing a strong foundation for a happy and fit life. You may know all of these habits and even if you already have them it will still enrich you to better them as you become aware of the multiple benefits they have stored in them for you. Even the pro tip at the end holds so much meaning. 


The book inspires us for all right reasons like the importance of getting up early at 5:30a.m. or of journaling, of mindfulness, of letting go, and several other valuable habits, discussing at length the methodologies and benefits of each. I have personally followed these habits for years before falling prey to my ill health and hence I can vouch for the author’s recommendations with immense conviction. Today I am glad I am back on track.


Book Cover and Writing Style


The book cover does justice to the genre in which the book is written, for anyone looking for a self-help book to build strong worthwhile habits, this is what he or she must immediately pick.


The writing style is crisp with no unnecessary dragging of sub-topics. More is conveyed in fewer words as simply as possible so that the maximum number of people can reap the advantages of the author’s experiences in life. The book is also thoroughly edited and seamlessly flows from one chapter to another. 


I highly recommend it to one and all. You can grab a copy of this book here


If you like what I write, you can grab copies of my eight published works here: The Fragrance of True LoveDestiny's Favorite ChildDare to Defy The DestinyEmpowered Women Empower Women, Soulful Letters On COVID, for My Future GrandchildI Live to Love YouSoft Strings Of My Heart and Brave Inked EmotionsAlso, as the founder of the Endometriosis Support and Awareness Group of India and Emotionally Strong Women Of India, I would love for you to join me in my mission or approach me for any women's health-related (physical/mental/emotional) assistance you seek.